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  • Are You a Money “Joy Giver” or “Joy Stealer”?

    We sat down with an executive last week to discuss some opportunities.  We had never met him before and were excited to see where the conversation would lead.  We knew he followed us, but were shocked when one of the first things he wanted to tell us was how he handled this summer’s vacation differently than he had in the past.

    We assumed he watched our “vacation” segment when he said he was the kind of person that always worried about spending money. We assessed him as a Saver/Flyer (but told him to take the online Money Personality Profile just to make sure). He was so proud of himself when he said “Every time I went to spend money—whether it was buying gas or a meal—I told myself that we had saved enough money and I didn’t need to complain about how much anything cost.”  He was so pumped because he had one of his best vacations ever!  We told him, “Awesome! You made it happen, and made your family vacation great! Nice job!”

    He has no idea how much more his family enjoyed the vacation too.  Let’s all remember that the way we view money just might be a “joy stealer.”  Be a “joy giver” and do a self check when it comes to how your views of money can impact those around you.

    Do you have a money story you’d like to share? Email us at: info@TheMoneyCouple.com

    One Response to Are You a Money “Joy Giver” or “Joy Stealer”?

    1. JeffreyG says:

      God did not intend for money to overpower us or generate constant worry and negativity in our thoughts. I believe it is important to recognize that not every single purchase or spending decision has to stand on its own as necessary or practical or money-saving.

      Being disciplined with the big picture decisions you make together about finances and the long term patterns you establish in how you spend is what is important. A consistent approach to stewardship in our daily lives should help create the freedom to spend in a impulsive or fun way once in awhile.

      As couples and individuals, there is value and enjoyment we receive by sometimes spending a little money without stopping to evaluate all the details or figure out all the specifics. Deciding to occasionally relax the budget controls we normally operate under only creates a problem when it replaces or destroys more constructive long-term habits.

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