Posts Tagged ‘separate accounts’

How Do We Talk About Life Insurance?

Monday, October 26th, 2009

What happens to my family financially when I die? Many of us know someone who lost a parent at a young age or a spouse in the early-to-mid stages of marriage. What is the impact on those who are left behind? Will your spouse be able to stay in dream home you purchased together? Will he or she be able to give time to your children or will work be the primary focus to keep a roof over their heads? Will the lives of your children be uprooted as well as being turned upside-down due to your death? Now is the time to get prepared. Communicating about it is often filled with anxiety and apprehension. Here are some tips to get started:

  1. Set the tone – it is imperative to keep it positive
  2. Discuss what income would need to be replaced
  3. Discuss if you want term insurance, universal or variable universal insurance.

Be sure to see more details written out in our Money Couple Minute “How Do We Talk About Life Insurance”.

Remember, this is a decision you need to make together. Protecting each other and making sure your family is taken care of will help bring you closer together and give you both peace of mind.

Individual Investments

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

We know lots of couples where one partner has a Risk Taker Money Personality and the other has a Security Seeker Money Personality. When they work together, these couples can play off of each others’ strengths to build a strong investment portfolio. This combination can lead to both a happy present and a secure future.

Read the entire Money Couple Minute on Individual Investments and learn more about how individual Money Personalities can work to your advantage in your relationship.

Avoiding Income Resentment

Friday, October 9th, 2009

We find that the primary breadwinner can sometimes feel like he or she should have more say so about money issues simply because that individual makes more. Couples that know how to communicate about money recognize that they have to think like partners, not individuals. Money touches every part of life, so if one partner is trying to control the money, the resulting bad mojo is going to infect the whole relationship.

Learn the necessary steps to ensure solid financial communication and how to avoid the income resentment trap in this weeks’ Money Couple Minute Avoiding Income Resentment.

Are Separate Accounts a Good Idea?

Friday, September 4th, 2009

Separate accounts can be very helpful. They make it easy to see who’s spending what. But they can also open the door to hidden spending and other secrets that are the core of financial infidelity. Remember, strong financial communication is based in partnership. If you’re going to have separate accounts make sure you keep each other up-to-date as to where that money’s going.

Read the entire Money Couple Minute on separate accounts. Discover the simple tools you can use to help keep your financial relationship on track whether you decide to use separate accounts or not.

Hiding Money…is it ok?

Friday, August 7th, 2009

It’s one thing for couples to have separate accounts—his and hers checking or separate cash reserves. But secret accounts are a whole ‘nother ballgame. They mean that someone in the relationship doesn’t trust the other person with financial decisions. And since money touches every part of our lives, that financial mistrust usually points to a deeper level of mistrust that will infect the whole relationship. That’s why hiding has to stop if the relationship is going to survive. Read the complete article explaining the dangers of hiding money in the Money Couple Minute, Hiding Money.