6 Benefits of Giving: For Your Relationships and Your Money
Updated: November 14, 2020

This time of year, money can feel tight. Anticipating the holidays, potential travel, gifts to buy, big dinners to cook, and another year where you didn’t save as much as you’d hoped. BUT this season helps to remind us that there are good reasons to shift the focus off of our own finances and commitments to share what we have with others. There are many benefits of giving.

Our mission at The Money Couple is not to just improve your finances, but your relationships too. What good is your money if you fight about it all the time and the thought of discussing dollars and cents makes you queasy?

So we talk a lot about Love & Money. That’s why we’ve identified 3 “love” benefits to sharing and 3 “money” reasons why it’s good to give.

6 Good Reasons to Give

3 For the Love of It

1. Less stress. Better health.

Helping another helps you. Call it karma, call it blessings, or get fancy and quote John F. Kennedy, “The rising tide lifts all boats.” We like to say that it’s sowing and reaping.

Helping others improves their life, helps everyone. When one person’s life is improved, that positively affects the next person, and the next, and the next …

Researchers at Johns Hopkins University and the University of Tennessee found that charitable givers experience reduced rates of stress and lower blood pressure compared to those who do not give.

2. Your children learn to give.

Teach your children that life is not about amassing as much money as you can. Show them it pays to be considerate and helpful to your fellow man. Imagine the freedom you give your child if they learn early on, that money isn’t everything.

3. Serving together improves your marriage.

Ever feel you’re stuck in the same rut or you’ve had the same fight ten times? It helps to take your eyes off of your “problems” and focus on someone else.

Serve with your spouse to help others out. In the process, you: a. spend time together, b. get to see your spouse in a new way, and c. you both might see that your “huge” issue isn’t so “huge”.


  • buy grocery gift cards and hand them out to folks in need,
  • prepare toiletries and snack bags and drive around town giving to others,
  • have fun buying balloon bouquets and flowers together to drop off at the hospital with directions to give to patients who haven’t had visitors.
  • volunteer together – clean hiking trails, hold babies, visit elderly folks, etc.

3 Financial Perks to Giving

1. Write off donations.

Even our government thinks giving is a good thing. They encourage us to give by offering us a tax break when we donate to qualifying organizations. You can write off some donations on your taxes.

Kathy Pickering, executive director of H&R Block’s Tax Institute. “In order to get the deduction come next April, keep a receipt of the donation, a note of the organization’s name, and the date and fair market value of all non-cash goods.”

2. Avoid taxes on stock gains by donating.

If you’re considering a big gift and have sizable capital gains on winning stocks you’ve held for at least a year, get a double benefit by donating them instead of selling. Claim a full deduction for their current market value, pay the capital-gains tax and then donate only the diminished proceeds.

However, you can only deduct such stock gifts up to 30% of your adjusted gross income, even if they’re made to a public charity. (To read more see, “Can I donate stock to charity?”)

3. Advance a cause you believe in.

Lots and lots of people could use our help. There are many worthy causes that need our financial assistance to carry out their mission.

Improved services for mental health patients, a political issue, research for a cancer cure, advances in fighting a rare disease, education for women in third world countries. What organization needs your help?

During this season of giving thanks, please remember to help share with others. Your heart, your family, our world, and your finances benefit from your generosity.

We are thankful for you. (And thankful for comments, leave them below!)

Taylor and Megan Kovar

The Money Couple

Taylor and Megan Kovar, The Money Couple

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